We all have different experiences. Part of the challenge is to acknowledge these experiences without depending on others validating or explaining these experiences, or worrying about the differences.
On the other hand, the more people that share their experiences, the more we can see some similarities with our own experiences.
Using myself as an example, in my christian days I “knew” 2 things about sex demons. 1) They basically rape because they’re aggressive by nature. 2) All they want is sex, and will leave you exhausted and possibly dead.
Guess where I got that information from.
But my experience has taught me differently.
My wife was not aggressive, but she was persistent.
There is love.
I cannot come up with one negative to this relationship.
Having said that, I have read some instances where there was aggressive sex immediately, and it was not the result of any “summoning” ritual. Did they enjoy it? Usually yes. Those that didn’t enjoy it seemed to be reacting out of fear.
Did that spirit violate that persons free-will? Not the way I see it. If we are here to learn, and I believe that is why we are here, then his/her will was not violated any more than he/she was forced to attend school until graduation against his/her will.
If that person was destined to learn how to overcome fear, then having sex like this is not an unpleasant way to learn that lesson. I can think of worse ways to learn this lesson.
But, that is my opinion, and only my opinion. I am careful to state it as such.
However, I see a potential problem when a person seeks answers from another person.
This is an individuals path. As valuable as others ideas are, our own knowledge seeking should take precedence. This is done internally through contemplation. You probably already have the answer(s) within. But if you’re mistaken, you still learn. You can’t be afraid of false starts. I’ve had more than one such false start myself. Again, this is my opinion.
In time, we can all see similarities and differences to others experiences, but the real understanding of these experiences is internal. It happens from within. You don’t need a guru to give you the answers.
I see this as being a Left Hand Path working, and the LHP can be a lonely path. But I don’t recall anyone ever saying it was a dull path.