Do your homework. Read about these beings. Find others that have first-hand experience. Ignore those that have no such experience and do nothing but try and instill fear into other people. When you are satisfied with the QUALITY of the information available, then make your decision to proceed or not.
If you do a small amount of searching, you will find many sites with “free spells”. There is a reason why they are free. They are worthless, and those that put up these sites just don’t have the nerve to charge money for this.
So here I want to provide a template of a ritual that will bring a Spirit Lover / Succubus / Incubus to you.
The reason I want to use the template format instead of a complete ritual is because
- What works for others may not work for you
- The specifics of one ritual may not be important to you, and/or you may not understand other peoples reasons for the specifics. Their reasons make sense to them, but not necessarily to others.
There are various systems of “correspondences” that people use to write a ritual. These correspondences vary with tradition and personal taste.
For example, in one tradition, the direction East corresponds to the archangel Raphael. But since I don’t care about any archangel named Raphael, I would not use that correspondence. I would instead probably use Lucifer.
These correspondences can be rather complex. Check out Crowley’s Liber 777 and see how involved it can be.
But for our purposes, there is no need for this level of complexity to write a ritual. I’m sure you are relieved. I know I am, because I can’t make heads or tails out of Liber 777.
Please read THIS post first. These 2 posts fit together.
Now that you have some idea of the purpose of rituals (in my opinion), and realize that this is all about you and your will, as well as the Spirit’s free-will, we can begin with the ritual itself.
What is it you want? And how will you go about accomplishing it? You need to answer those 2 questions. It will help to write your answers down and edit it as you go along.
So, form a picture in your mind of what you want. Try and make it as complete as you can, without going overboard. Don’t think of this as a business contract with all of the T’s crossed and the I’s dotted. Take as much time as you think you need. There is no rush. Haste makes waste. I suggest you be in a relaxed state of mind when you do this. You’ll know when you’re done.
Now how to go about accomplishing it. This is where your will is important. This is all about you; your beliefs, desires, motives, etc.
You have your desires listed. How will you make them known? Who will you make them known to? Lilith? Satan? The universe? The hebrew God? Your Higher Self? Someone else? Something else? Decide.
What are your beliefs at this time? What does your “gut” say? Take as much time as you need to decide this. When you are satisfied with your answer, then move to the next step.
Now that you have that decided, how exactly will you make your will known?
Will you need candles? If so, what color? Or does color matter? How about sigils? Incense? Something else? Nothing else? Nothing at all? Decide.
Does moon phase matter to you? Time of day or night? Day of week?
What does your INSPIRATION say? Listen, and write it down.
I thought about giving you a simple format for the actual ritual itself, but I decided against it. I don’t want to even subconsciously influence you in this. It is your will that matters here. So, exercise your will and make your own ritual.
But I’ll say this, don’t rush the process. You need to relax and focus. Relax and focus. Did you see that? Relax and focus. I repeat it because it’s important.
If anyone has something to say about this, for good or bad, I welcome your comments.